Why men and women see different dating apps
The median man gets a match per 140 swipes. The median woman per 10. We unpack the industry's harshest fact and why a year in, it's effectively two products.
For Everyone·Apr 14, 2026·7 min read
Ghosting: 60% of people have experienced it. Why it isn't their fault
60% of online daters have been ghosted, 63% deleted an app because of it. Why ghosting isn't a moral problem but a product design consequence.
Why We're Different·Apr 13, 2026·6 min read
The match funnel: where the 11 days from «like» to «hi on Telegram» actually go
The average dating-app conversation runs 11 days and 15 messages before phone exchange. We break down each stage of the funnel and where the time disappears.
How It Works·Apr 11, 2026·7 min read
Protecting User Attention
Our main rule is «do not take excess.» We are building a tool that helps people meet without taking up unnecessary time.
Philosophy·Apr 10, 2026·2 min read
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